Month: August 2005

  • Fundraising Websites for Katrina

    Www.redcross.org is quite clogged.

    There are plenty of other places, however, to make donations to help the families who are in need in Louisiana, Mississippi, and Alabama.

    Mr. Michael King lists multiple websites on his web-log at http://mhking.mu.nu/archives/115181.php.

    I personally believe that civilization is based on millions of people doing the right thing, even when 40 news-camera crews are not filming them. It amazes me every day when I see good people whose actions will never be acknowledged by CNN, CBS, ABC, NBC, or FOX. You all keep the world turning, and my prayers are with you.

  • Honey Mesquite

    Mesquite. It’s all over the plains where I live. Matt thinks they’re ugly little bushes. I think they’re beautiful. They grow with very little water. They withstand the harsh winds and dust storms of the High Plains. When they are small, they have little thorns on their green trunks. When they are big, their greyish trunks have become thornless but twisted. Throughout their lives, they are never lush, but always have sparse feathery leaves.

    Farmers and ranchers of the area hated them because they grew up everywhere, like weeds. Cows supposedly ate the seed pods along with the leaves and distributed the mesquite across the plains wherever they roamed. Mesquite was chopped and used only as firewood for smoking, and people found they made excellent-tasting barbeque.

    However, at Mission San Jose in San Antonio, I learned that honey mesquite pods are actually edible. If you find a dried yellow seed pod, bite it. It’s honey-like, and full of protein. Native Americans ground the seed pods into flour. I personally think honey mesquite pancakes sound pretty darn good.

    My mom and I were impressed by this one mesquite tree. Decades of lightning strikes and harsh weather had split its trunk, but it kept growing. A tribute to the sturdy mesquite. I like ‘em.



  • San Antonio, TX

    I really have to thank two people for showing me around San Antonio. One is dead. The other person is someone I will never meet in person. Because of them, I found some of the cool “hidden stuff” that really made my mom’s visit and concurrent vacation fun.

    One of the treasures of the San Antonio area is actually not in San Antonio, but within San Marcos. The San Marcos River gushes straight out of a spring and makes a clear, flowing watercourse for tubing. (This is the same river that some guy jumped into after eating at a restaurant and was saved by a stranger who eventually was arrested by police.)

    Most of the rivers in this area are great for diving and snorkeling because of the clarity of the water, although preferably one would choose the ones far from waterparks.

    Website of San Marcos area divers

    In some parts of Philippines, there is a legend that people who drown were called to the water by mermaids to be asked if they eat fish. If they answer “Yes,” the mermaid will drag them into the water and drown them.

    I didn’t get any pictures of the San Marcos, but I snapped a few of the Comal which runs through and feeds the Schlitterbahn.



  • Go West, Young Man

    In my few decades on this earth, I recognize there is a strong association between one’s quality of life and whether or not a person left home after high school. Those who leave home tend to do much better in life than those who continue to live with their parents after high school. I honestly can’t tell what is cause and effect. Perhaps those who stay home have a problem to begin with, which leads to their inability to escape the nest. Even so, I think there’s a vicious cycle in it. Staying in one place breeds apathy and decreasing confidence that one can make a difference in one’s life by one’s own actions. Those of my relatives and friends who have stayed with parents, tend to spiral into problems. They become “the eternal child” — and thus become a huge burden on everyone else in the family, financially and emotionally.

    There is truth to the saying, “If you keep on saving someone, they will forget how to survive.”

    Relatives who. . . .

    STAYED HOME LEFT HOME

    Uncle A: He finished pharmacy school, but immediately went back to live with his mother and father even after he got married; he and his wife sued his mother for mental incompetency and lost; his wife ran off with the lawyer; he got divorced; and now his only son is a drug-dealer.

    Dad: He left home at age 16 to go to high school in Bangkok on a scholarship; finished medical school; left to go to a new country where he met his wife; still married for over 30 years; owns his own house and business and sends money home to his relatives.

    Uncle B: He finished college, but never used his degree; lived with his mother and father even after he was already married; racked up over $6000 in credit card debt; fathered an illegitimate child; before he finally moved away from his parents and his life straightened up considerably.

    Mom: She left home after college, went to another country where she had no relatives, sent money home to her relatives, successfully owned and managed her own business, before finally going back to work in the medical field, still married for over 30 years.

    Cousin C: He lived at home with his mother and father after finishing high school. The only place he can get a job is at his father’s old factory. He fathered an illegitimate child, and still doesn’t earn enough to send money to support his kid, even though he is in his 40′s.

    Cousin D: She left home right after high school and got a professional degree at a university that was 14 hours drive from her parents. She met her husband in dentistry school, and they opened up a practice together. She is still happily married with two great kids who have also finished their professional degrees, and has a successful practice in Thailand. She also owns two Mercedes and sends money home to her brother who is still living with their mom.

    Cousin E: He stayed in the same town for college in North Carolina, no one ever hears about him, perhaps because he’s not doing as well as his brother who left home.

    Cousin F: He left North Carolina at age 14 to go to college in Boston. Last I heard he was finishing his Ph.D. at MIT and has already published a number of papers. He has never been back home except to visit.

    Cousin G: He lived with his parents after high school. Most exciting recent news, “He got a job.”

    Cousin H: She left home to go to college at UC Irvine. She worked through college. Last I heard she graduated and is probably going to go into graduate studies.

    Cousin I: He never left home. He never went to college. He still lives with his mother, but finally got a job managing his father’s business (but only because his dad died). He never got married, but fathered two illegitimate children whom he can barely support due to his frivolous spending habits.

    Cousin J: She left home right after high school, and went to college, despite her dad’s protests. She met her husband in accounting school and is now a successful accountant in Bangkok. She owns her own house in Bangkok, which is an amazing feat. She has two sweet kids, and can afford to send them to private school, even while she and her husband send money home to support her two older brothers who are ironically still living with their mother.

    Cousin K: He lived with his mother after high school. Got arrested for drug dealing, and after having physically assaulted his father because he wasn’t sending him money, is disowned.

    Nephew L: He left home right after high school and finished a professional degree. He is now a successful dentist and can afford to send money home to his parents, except that his parents left home early too, and they don’t need anyone to send money to them.

    It is interesting to note the female to male ratio of those who left home versus those who stayed put.

    Friends who:

    STAYED HOME

    LEFT HOME
    Jeremy: He lived with his mother after high school. He applied for and got a scholarship to Art Center in Pasadena, but quit after less than one year to move back in with his mother. He still works minimum wage jobs, and last I heard, he is still single.

    Dan: He got a scholarship to Art Center in Pasadena, and left immediately after high school to go there. He lived on his own for a while, until Jeremy joined him. He finished his art degree and is now working for a computer graphics company, recently hired to do the next Tomb Raider. He married a strikingly gorgeous lady, who is pretty enough to be a model, who has a degree in business accounting and works in business management.

    Yvonne: She lived with her mother and father after high school, and married a guy who had no job. Even while married, she lived with her parents. She supported her entire family and her son, until she got fed up and left her husband. Last I heard she moved back to Philippines to be with other relatives. No one has heard from her since.

    Claire: She left home after high school, despite her dad’s protests. She supported herself through college in a city where she knew no one. She finished her college degree and then got her Master’s degree. Now she and her husband, whom she met in college, have a cute little daughter and they own their own house in the San Francisco Bay Area. They’ve been happily married for 5 years, and she recently opened up her own business.

    DB: She lived with her parents after high school, and didn’t go to college right away. She finally moved out so she could move in with her brother. She dated numerous men, and has broken up with them all. One of them was a married man whom she dated for 4 years, before he dumped her. Then her brother kicked her out of his house because she kept bringing home guys who were eating him out of house and home, and no one was paying the bills except himself. Most recently, she stole money from her dad’s bank account and still hasn’t told him she was kicked out of nursing school.

    JL: She left home after high school to attend Cal Poly where she finished her degree, and moved to Seattle where she and her boyfriend, still together after 12 years, are both successful architects. What impressed me most was that she was on the team that designed the Venezia Hotel in Las Vegas. She sends me pictures of their ski trips, and laughingly tells me that if I want to build my dream home or a hospital, that she will draw up the plans for me for free.

    Josh: He lived out of his mother’s trailer home, leaving only to go to parties. The only reason he moved out was because she died of Lou Gehrig’s disease in her 40′s, and they lost the trailer home to her creditors. He enrolled in community college twice, and got kicked out twice. He has never held a job longer than two months and is constantly asking his brother for money. He moved in with his brother after his mother died, until his brother got sick of him and kicked him out. Last I heard, Josh has moved in with a new girlfriend and has taken up smoking pot. His good looks provide him with a steady stream of girlfriends to support him.

    Jason: He moved away from home at 16 to attend the Texas Academy of Math and Science. He supported himself through college on a scholarship and then went on to do graduate studies. He sent money home to support his mother and brother, while he was a graduate student (which is a pretty remarkable feat on a graduate student salary). When his mother died, he paid off her credit card bills, and helped to support his brother (still jobless). He finally kicked his brother out because he wouldn’t get a job.

    So every now and then, Matt and I get a little down that we have no relatives in Texas. We are here on our own, and we only get to see our parents about once a year, if even that. And yet, I’m consoled that so many of my relatives and friends before me have packed up their wagons and moved on. We’re not the first. And we won’t be the last. I would hope our children are brave enough to do the same for us.

    We get by. . . with a little help from our friends.

  • Eau de Polecat

    It’s Murphy’s Law that the night before our vacation, Roscoe made the decision, without committee approval, to kill his very first skunk. So, tonight Matt, my mother, and I get to see if tomato juice really works on a proud and stinky dog.



    http://lavplourde.tripod.com/skunk/

    (Good website that recommends hydrogen peroxide instead.)

    Skunk Smell Remover
    by Lav Plourde

    http://lavplourde.tripod.com/skunk/

    1 quart 3% Hydrogen Peroxide
    1/4 cup Baking Soda
    2 tbsp Dish Detergent. The stuff for washing dishes in the sink, not something for dishwashers.

    Mix the ingredients in a large bowl, because it will boil up like Vesuvius. We are, after all, making an oxygen generator. Wash the dog with this while it is still foaming, because it is the oxygen which reacts with the thiols in the skunk stink to neutralize the odor. If it sits around, it will loose it’s efficacy because the oxygen boils off. Don’t try to store it in an airtight container, because it will blow up. The brew also works for clothes, humans and unlucky cats.

    Addendum: Tomato juice didn’t work for Roscoe. However, it did make him smell as if he were a skunk tossed in a garden salad. Hydrogen peroxide worked fabulously!