Sailing With Children
My husband was away at work this morning, so I decided to take the tyke out to the driveway and wash down the sailboat for the first time in two years. It was coated with a decent layer of Texas dust. I remember reading somewhere that dust provides an SPF of 4. So, it may actually have been better for us to leave it be. But I can’t stand to look at it like that. So I filled up a pail, and we set to work!
I think it looks pretty good. We only did one half. By then, daddy was home and it was time for lunch. So we’ll finish off the other half tomorrow.
Now that my rudder is back from the mechanic, perfectly ground down (he even made a notch in it for the screw of the latch), I just have to
1. Assemble the tiller
2. Get new non-crispy lines for the halyard and sheets.
3. Oil the trailer tire bearings.
4. Attach the new trailer plates.
And we’re good to go sailing.
Or are we? I’ve been pondering this dilemma ever since I attempted to go sailing with the Bantam back in May. (May 14, 2011 to be exact.) I hated to leave husband on shore with the little one. It seemed unfair. Plus, the kiddo really enjoys the water (of his bathtub), and I have a feeling that he’d really take to sailing as well. The problem is, how early does one put a child on a dinghy?
At the moment, I don’t think dinghy sailing is appropriate for him. He needs to be able to communicate clearly and effectively. And his current vocabulary does not allow for that.
He also needs to know how to swim. He already has a life jacket, but there are no Type I PFDs for his age group. So he still needs to be able to right himself, if he goes overboard.
He also needs to know that in order to sail a boat, he cannot go overboard. It seems strange to say that, but it’s true. He *LOVES* to touch the water. And this is why I always warn my patients’ moms not to leave them unattended in bathrooms, because babies can actually fall into a toilet head-first, and not be able to push themselves out.
So many things to consider.
Anyway, I posted a few more links to other websites that talk about sailing with one’s children:
1. Joe Boyle talks about sailing with his daughter. I can totally identify with his feelings about sailing with his spouse. I post one part of his article that made me cringe, below:
“Rafting up with some powerboater friends in LaTrappe creek later that evening we had a close call. I was steering and Christy was on the port bow getting ready to toss a line to our friends who were anchored in a big honking condo-sized powerboat. Just at the critical moment Cassie, who was clutching the lifelines near the cockpit, let out a shriek that meant real pain. My choices ran instantly through my head, grab for my daughter and risk t-boning this huge powerboat or let her wail. I took the risk and stretched out to grab the handle on the back of her lifevest. I hoisted her into the carpeted cockpit sole while only losing touch with the wheel for a second or two and managed to avoid giving our friends on the powerboat a fiberglass kiss. Cassie had fallen and wedged herself between a winch and a cleat but she was just fine; two beers later, so was I.”
– from “Sail, Baby, Sail!” at http://www.searoom.com/sail_baby.htm
2. Rebel Heart who has a darling daughter aboard their sailboat.
3. The Ceal Mor in the Gulf of Mexico
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